He, the Protector; She, the Nurturer

I have read, heard and felt that distinct role definition, both for men and women is a misty cloud, so what is the fuss actually all about?

Who is a man? What are his characteristics? He is the protector, provider and  secret lover.

Who is a Woman? She is the nourisher, nurturer and the affectionate lover.

Well, I agree women these days are independent, so they can fend for themselves pretty well. They have been thinking, working hard and achieving a lot in life. They earn their bread and butter, have a mind, are aware of their rights and expectations too. But, who said she doesn’t need that tough shoulder to rest her head on? Just like, who said he doesn’t need that smile and a warm-in-a million hugs from her.

I am not a feminist, and absolutely not speaking from that perspective. She doesn’t need a man to feed her, but definitely those balls, who treat her like a princess, gaze at her lovingly, compliment her, care if her phone battery is charged and hold her hand softly. All she needs is that unexpected red rose,that special note or text to make her feel feminine and loved and she all melts in your armsJLikewise, what characteristics hat, does a man want his woman to don ? Someone who is caring, loving, nurtures and supports his dreams, he wouldn’t bother if she works late or is shopaholic, he would still love her if the basis are met. God has made us like that, women harbor children, nurture them and the men protect from the big bad world out there and be their MAN!

So, it is not the case that she doesn’t need him anymore. It is just an evolution for her to learn outside the home or relationship and grow but she longs for her man, always! Just like he can quarrel with her, be confused and unfocused, but her peck and a sweet rub at the nose can make all the difference to him.She could be applauded a million by the world, but she waits for that one expression,on his face to gauze his reaction to the food she prepared especially for him.

Man and woman are made to compliment not intersect .We can’t deviate from our basic roles; we can only unlearn and learn and spread the wings together. It is only healthy, to mark the basic expectations out of each other. It’s affection and appreciation women look for and the provider wants to be assured that you think he’s tough and he can come to you no matter what. Yes you can!

Never forget the “you look handsome” \ “you look beautiful”, because to each other they appeal the most to the eyes, and the heart:)